Joe Perry’s Son Unloads On Stone Temple Pilots’ Dean DeLeo: ‘He’s A Punk Ass Bully’

40
31

Aaron Perry, the son of legendary Aerosmith guitarist Joe Perry, unloaded on Stone Temple Pilots guitarist Dean DeLeo in recent Facebook posts in the wake of Dean’s estranged wife Jenn accusing him of abuse. The first one is no longer visible, so it’s unclear if he hid or deleted the post. The second post is still up, and was posted a couple of weeks ago. STP have a long history with Aerosmith, opening for them on many occasions, with Robert DeLeo even being Joe Perry’s bandmate in Hollywood Vampires for a couple of years.

My girl is a warrior. The strength and courage to come out publicly in a situation like this is impressive. Knowing how most of the world are star f*ckers and they will blame the victim but she still came forward. She’s a true champion. But once again, as I have said a million times, because he can play guitar (or like the people who can throw a football, make a movie, fight in a ring) people will make excuses for supporting a man like this. All that, on top of what she has gone through, she still came forward and is holding strong. Bullying back the bully.

And yeah, I’ve seen his temper first hand when he tried to fight me a week or so ago. I laughed in his face, stood right up to him and he cowered back in to his house because I’m not a child or a woman. I’ve read the texts and have heard the phone calls and voice mails and I have seen the pictures of the bruises. He’s a punk ass bully.

#STPSucksAnyway
#DeanDeLeo
#StopAbuse
#RealMenDontHit

Perry also made a post on June 10th on Facebook, though he didn’t mention Dean DeLeo by name:

We really need to change the mentality/culture of telling people “you should have pressed charges back then” “that was a year ago and you didn’t say anything” “why did you stay so long” and so on? It’s offensive and heartless to assume you’d be so strong to just walk out when millions every day are trapped and scared to leave. Abusers do not change overnight. You don’t just wake up one day and are thrown against a wall. They often spend months or years breaking you down and taking away your identity, dignity and humanity. They often pray on people a lot weaker than they are that they can bully. They manipulate you constantly. They spend days and days doing nothing but belittling and making people fee less than and blaming you. Everything always starts great and slowly before you know it you’ve been in an abusive relationship for years. They apologize for their behavior and promise to change or it was a one time thing or it wasn’t that bad. They make it about you and how it’s your fault.

Then when you finally have had enough one day, we as a society scoff at you for staying so long. We say things like “I don’t know how you did it, I would have left years ago”. You have lawyers saying things like “I’m sorry but you really should have called the cops 8 months ago”. Forgetting that 8 months ago the police told you “yes we can take him away for the night but he’ll probably be back tomorrow and getting a restraining order will take time. Maybe it’s not as bad as you think”, so you go back and take the blows to protect your children. Time passes and things settle so when you finally do get the courage to take action the courts force you to stay because you legally can not take children away from a parent without “proof” and your “proof” is from “months ago” like that somehow matters.

You threaten divorce and are met with death threats, or worse. You’re financially a prisoner, you’re emotionally drained, you have nothing but a new strength and love for yourself and bruises and have to face a monster alone. You try to do the right thing and are threatened or worse at every turn. But one day you’ve had enough! You wake up stronger than every before. You face your fears head on no matter what. You’re a voice, a champion and a fighter. You take your life back despite all odds against you. You’re not alone.

The tides are changing. People are starting to see how hard it is living in the shadows and how hard it is to walk away from any type of abuse. We use to scoff at sexual abuse if it “happened years ago” and now we don’t. Now we need to start feeling the same way about physical and mental abuse as well. There should NEVER be a limitation mentality on the length of time someone has to come forward. Not everyone is as strong as you pretend to be in your hypothetical “I would leave” comments. Many people live decades with abuse and stay for fear of a worse outcome. People need to be compassionate at the struggles and strength it takes to talk away and not scoff at the length of time between episodes. It could be hours, weeks or years in between abuse and that should NEVER factor in to it. #LetThemFightBack #TimesUp #TidesChanging #NoLimits

  • Allison Auld

    Why don’t these people STAY OFF social media?? And if they absolutely can’t, why should we believe anything this guy says anyway? He’s Joe Perry’s son, which means he was born on third base and thinks he hit a triple. He’s banging the soon-to-be-ex Mrs. DeLeo (and who knows when that really started). So far we know one side of the story and this guy’s testimony, which is worthless. He sounds like a teenager when he talks about fighting Dean. Why doesn’t he worry more about supporting his “girl” and keeping his blather off Facebook?

    • Jimmy Freeman

      F N A!

    • Dave Wight

      If Deleo did what is alleged don’t you condone this diatribe?

      • Allison Auld

        IF he is guilty and it helps his wife to heal, while I don’t condone pouring one’s heart out over social media, I could understand it. But this guy, the new boyfriend? No. He has no place shooting his big mouth off. He should keep his involvement in the situation private. He’s not helping and he sounds very immature, with his stupid hashtags and the future ex-Mrs. DeLeo should reign him in (unless she’s enjoying having her new young beau put her soon-to-be ex on blast.)

        • Dave Wight

          You have to understand he believes her charges, he’s acting in accordance with that. He also says Deleo tried to fight him so it makes sense why he excoriated DeLeo publicly.

  • Kay B

    Whoa whoa whoa…..STP does not suck. Especially compared to Aerosmith. Look at the difference in the lyrics of their songs. How F ing lame was “I Don’t Want to Miss a Thing?” Aerosmith is only still around because Joe and Steven are embalmed.

    • John

      Both bands are great but this kid sounds like a punk (in the bad sense). Kind of weird because I thought Perry Sr. was friends with DeLeo?

      • Gary Reilly

        Perry Sr is (or was) friendly with DeLeo. But Arron Perry is now banging the ex Mrs DeLeo, so you could argue that he’s presenting a fairly biased viewpoint.

        • Allison Auld

          Exactly!

          • Carol Sindle

            But wait doesn’t aron perry say “cowered back into his house” so he showed up at deans house with the wife?????????smh and “take more blows” sounds very serious enough to call the po?

          • Allison Auld

            Makes me wonder the timeline of this Aaron relationship and her deciding to file for divorce…

          • Kay B

            And BINGO was his name-o!

      • Dave Wight

        If what she alleges in the divorce papers is true, then he has every right to be livid. Especially if Dean tried to fight him, what would you do if that were your woman and someone is alleged to beat her.

    • Dave Wight

      When bands reach a certain level they do not suck, and saying a band sucks is a lousy 3rd grader’s take unless it is a reference to truly awful bands like Pearl Jam and Nirvana then it is warranted. STP is a great band, or were a great bamd. Aersomith are iconic and legends.

  • Carol Sindle

    HAHAHAH wonder where these 2 met and how long he’s know dean , looks like he drank the koolaid . i know people that have known dean since the 90s and NOONE has said anything but nice things about this man. all these 2 do is be on there social media all day long . also I’m really oppose to kids being brought into this that s crossing the line. jen deleo mentioned deans son in her deposition, not even her own kids names are init WHO SHE LEFT IN NEW JEERSEY 8 YEARS AGO looks like she wants to be around aerosmith no if you ask me watch out aaron she might be goin for the dad

    • Allison Auld

      That’s what I was thinking. She might be going after that Aerosmith money. She said something in her filing that Dean said that he didn’t have the $300,000 (for what, it didn’t say) but she’s money-minded for sure.

      • Carol Sindle

        its all suspect if you ask me and are they both in high school? punk ass bully? what? can’t they leave amongst themselves also i didn’t see anything about “sexual assault”? in the filing isn’t that metoo?

        • Allison Auld

          She recently #metoo’ed the director James Toback but lots of women say he’s scum. But that might be where she got the idea to #metoo her husband. It’s just very strange that she deleted her Instagram (that had current videos of her and Dean seemingly having a great time on a boat and another video where she was all proud of Dean and taping him from side-stage at one of his shows) and replaced it with all this stuff about her being a warrior and a survivor and pics of her sucking face with this guy, Perry Jr.

          • Dave Wight

            If what she alleges is true or even part of it is true. he looks horrible and he will become a pariah in society. His brother should look to replace him.

          • Carol Sindle

            Totally agree on that and why do they have to air the dirty laundry on social media please give it a rest and have the court do an investigation and done stop the hash tags!

          • Carol Sindle

            perry jr lol

    • Dave Wight

      So they are going to tell you that he is a drug using abuser? And she is only reporting on her own experiences that commenced a few years ago, people change. However, it is unlikely this would be the first time he has done this. We know he was a junkie for a long time.

  • Eddie Yarler

    The fact that this little asshat, and Lady Deleo have the audacity to use hashtags over something this (supposedly) severe makes.me think everything they say is complete and total bullshit.

    • Dave Wight

      How does using hashtags in some way minimize what she alleges or somehow makes it less sincere? You may want to to read what she alleges in the divorce documents, no hashtags

    • Dave Wight

      If it is true they have every right to broadcast and expose him, of course if not true they face libel Issues.

    • Kay B

      #asshat

  • Dave Wight

    Well, if the allegations are true, then Deleo deserves to be ostracized. Not sure why Joe Perry’s son is so indignant regarding this situation and why he is saying a band sucks, saying a band sucks is a lousy take unless it is Pearl Jam or Nirvana.

  • Carol Sindle

    If this jenndeleo is with the womens movement and empowering women why is she mercilessly bashing deans apparent new girlfriend . jen deleo has all these fake accounts is so obvious and they’re bashing and harassing an innocent girl on their hashtags wtf

  • Johnny Prime

    Joe perry’s face continues to look as if it’s melting off his head. also, why aren’t the Tool singer rape allegations being covered here. seems to me if you’re going to cover one man’s alleged abuse, you should cover the other’s alleged sexual assault(s)

    • Alternative Nation

      The accusations against Dean are not anonymous, and are mentioned in court documents. Jenn accused Dean herself on Twitter/Facebook, and gave her story in the divorce document. She also has pictures in the document. I’ve reached out to Dean for comment via STP’s publicist and I’ve heard nothing back for two days.

      The accusation against Maynard is an anonymous Twitter user. No name, no pictures/proof, not even private communication with a media outlet verifying their identity/corroborating their story. I’m not putting up something that could end a guy’s career that literally has no verification at all. It actually boggles my mind that it is being so heavily covered, though not by the biggest outlets yet. I have privately reached out to Maynard’s publicist, and to the two Twitter accounts accusing him.

    • Dave Wight

      Anonymous accusation of something that happened 18 years ago. These people are willing to put names to allegations.

  • Dave Wight

    I see this website is into censorship, how Pearl Jam fan of you. People cannot make posts that are critical

    • Corndog

      Censorship? Not at all, but given what you said here i went and checked disqus admin and i can see that a number of your posts have been marked as spam by other site users which means disqus automatically removes them. I’ve read some of your posts, so i can’t say that them being marked as spam is remotely surprising given the obnoxious opinionated nature of 95% of the shit you post. Perhaps try to not be so much of a knob?

    • Kay B

      Also besides what Corndog says below, as far as me acting like a 3rd grader I have just as much right to say a band sucks as you do. I would take you more seriously in your earlier comment to me but your grammar was repugnant. In closing, you have your opinion, it just happens to be wrong. Good day.

      • Corndog

        You’re wasting your time Kay. That guy doesn’t know the difference between opinion and fact. Thinks everything he says is gospel. Only he gets to decide what does or does not suck.

  • lima85

    Just say NO to sociopathic media!

  • Shane99

    I’m guessing this Aaron Perry wanker was sleeping with her behind Deans back. Dean found out, the wife and Dean had a fight. Now, to save face, she makes these typical accusations. The, easy to manipulate, whiny bitch Aaron Perry is now tasked with cleaning up her shit, but he will lose her the same way he got her.

    Aaron sounds like a 15 year old girl.

    Could be completely wrong here as well, but I’m not taking the word of the new whiny goof boyfriend.

    • Allison Auld

      Yep, yep – that’s just what I think too!

      • Carol Sindle

        BINGO Shane99 Now Aron perry the 15 year old girl is trolling deans new gf under the ig name blondeambitionontour with links to his story smh the two of them should go off and be happy in their new cosy status and let the courts do there due diligence

        • Allison Auld

          He needs a job besides being Joe Perry’s son. 🤢